Serious only please I'm a normal, non-"hot" overweight middle aged guy simply looking for someone who isn't totally broken and bitter from life's up and downs to try getting to know and dating. Someone who isn't into playing games. Just someone who wants to have fun and get to know me and let me get to know her and see where it leads. I don't think that's too much to ask and if it is, then this is a total waste of time. But I'm hopeful there are some normal, sane, decent women out there who have it somewhat together and would be interested (ok xxx probably isn't the best place to look so what is?) I'm not really religious I'm more spiritual and I tend to go left of center, meaning if you live to watch Faux Noise, we won't be a match. I'm a non-smoker and only want to be with a non-smoker. Nothing personal I'm just allergic to it. I'm honestly open to your religion or political views though - if you don't try to convert me I won't try to convert you, but we might get along better if we are somewhat on the same page of music. Speaking of which I love music, as well asmy girls gone let s smoke fuck movies, Kinky sex date in Rollingstone MN. Swingers, kinkycouples sex. reading, road trips, museums and zoos, bookstores with coffee shops, swf seeking fwb with swm festivals and farmers markets, planetariums and aquariums, and great conversation and laughter. I'm affectionate and I'm interested in a long term monogamous relationship with the right woman. I'm pretty open, other than what I mentioned (non-smoker, and not really x friendly I hate that stuff). I'm sure not perfect but I'm for real and looking for someone else who is too and knows or has SOME idea of what she wants. Maybe it's me maybe it's not, but you never know till you try.