Seeking Outgoing & Energetic. Angel, Demon's Wings....and you? Hiya - I have tried using POF, Okcupid, a friend with a Rostock mature single women in Lfatsy Match, Zoosk....it's like being in, and looking through, a catalog. Mostly a catalog of what I don't want. I'm a different sort of man. I play by the "house rules," meaning I treat people the way I want to be treated, and I communicate my feelings. I've been told I'm attractive, but you can be the judge of that. I'm about x ' x " tall, with dark red hair (peppered with a touch of gray now, and I'm starting to resemble Johnny Quest's father...lol.) I have green/brown eyes, and I look a LOT younger than . (She was seeing someone else.) The divorce will be final in the next month or so. I don't have any ren, but I certainly don't mind if you do. What I do: Well, it depends on the day. I am a freelance writer, pro musician, coach for a sport you would not believe, and a music teacher. I'm also handy with electronics. (Yes, I can fix a vibrator....lol.) What I'm looking for: This is a little difficult to describe, but I will try. I want someone who doesn't look or act her age, who has a sense of humor that borders on offending me, who knows her own gender well enough to know the subtle games we ALL play. I want someone who wants to communicate with me, instead of rambling on and on about some inane poisonous gossip that I couldn't care less about. I want to be able to like the things I like without being ashamed, without feeling like I have to apologize for being who I am. (No, I'm not gay...lol) I really like goofball, geeky, silly women who know how to be sexy. What I'm NOT looking for: Someone who drinks a lot, or who feels it necessary to get shitfaced at least once a week. I don't want to be with someone who is re-hashing every bad thing that ever happened in the past - I'm all about taking responsibility for WHERE I AM. I am responsible for my past, mychlons en champagne sex future, single Coventry male is looking and where I am now - complaining about that won't help me, and I can't help you. You know how some women ask, "Where are all the faithful men?" Well, I ask, "Where are all the forthright women? Where are the women who actually say what they want?" Just as you may believe faithful men do not exist, I find it increasingly difficult to believe that ANY woman will EVER say what she really wants. I hope I am wrong. Also, if you're cheating on your husband, stay the hell away from me - I am free to see and be with whomever I choose, and I will NOT contribute to the downfall of someone else's marriage. And as a point of clarification, I have never cheated on anyone I've ever been involved with - I saw what that did to my mother, and that ain't my thing. On the lighter side of things, I should mention that I am a LOT of fun to be around. I love making other people laugh (please don't say, "I love to laugh." It's ridiculous - everyone likes to laugh. It's not a character trait, ok?) Anyway, this is turning into a novel, so I'll leave you with it. Because my work has me in front of a lot of people, I'm not posting a face pic here, but I'll gladly reply with xxx if you send me xxx of you. I'm not a pic collector or anything, but physical attraction is important. IMPORTANT NOTE: Place the answer to the following question in the subject line of your email: What is the name of the Elf princess from Lord of the Rings? (Played by Steven Tyler's daughter...hint, hint. Spelling isn't all that important...you're just doing it to verify your not a femme-bot sent to destroy me. LOL) (I know...my geek is showing.)