Need advice from a girl who is not in my circle of friends OK I need to understand something. I can't ask my friends because they might not tell me what I need to here. I am a decent looking guy. I am very intelligent. I even have a reputation for having never cheated on a girl ever. It's true to. So why am I single right this minute. I was in the happiest x year lastingim very real looking for a professional woman that needs more relationship, woman looking for man tonight with a cool and good looking girl till about years ago. It did not last because at first we both had an addiction to pain meds and she got off them first. I had more trouble and it ended the relationship in a nut shell. In the time since I have dated but not found a to really send out fireworks. Then a year ago after being on for a year I finally got clean. Done never ever getting back on those cursed things ruined my life till now. Now the real problem is now that I am clean I can't even get a date. I am looking healthier and feel it too. My attitude is better. I also have serious plans to get into collage finally and make something of my life. Crawling out of the is hard and nothing motivates me better than being in love. I just can't seem to find it. I want a girl who smokes green and drink every once and a while but nothing else. I understand that my selection is limited and has changed due to my change. Anyway I am lonely and want to fall in love again. I don't know what to do to succeed in this. I need to talk to the type of girl who is used to guys asking them out regularly but is still cool and down to earth to be a good listener who remains understanding with my situation to talk to about this. There is a really cool girl I have my eye on and I already know that I could end up falling in love with her if given the chance. I need help to get the confidence up to go after a girl like her as well. Please help me! I think and dream of her constantly and have not felt that way and had that happen since the girl I was with for years.